The white on the ceiling is stark and cutting and makes the back of my eyes hurt as I lay here on the couch. This is day 15 of chronic channel surfing in avoidance
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The Bricklayer’s Dilemma: Walls vs. Boundaries in Healing
Mar 21, 2025
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There’s an old saying: "Good fences make good neighbors." But I think whoever said that never had to rebuild themselves from the rubble of trauma. Because when you’ve been hurt, a fence doesn’t feel l...
Lessons Learned From My Canine Teachers
Mar 07, 2025
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The chaos erupted in an instant—one moment, there was tense stillness, and the next, a blur of teeth, snarls, and frenzied movement shattered the fragile peace we had known. The air was thick with the...
Cultivating Healthy Connections as an Empath
Feb 28, 2025
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My name is Anastasia and I am an Empath. When in close proximity to people I absorb their energy and carry it. When they are in a good place the energy is life giving, however, when the person we ar...
Uncovering the Great Unknown
Feb 21, 2025
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"Authenticity is a collection of choices that we have to make every day. It's about the choice to show up and be real. The choice to be honest. The choice to let our true selves be seen."Â Â
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Loving Your Inner Child: The First Step to True Healing
Feb 14, 2025
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Imagine you're on a plane, and the flight attendant reminds you: "Put on your own oxygen mask before helping others." It’s a simple instruction, yet so many of us ignore it in our own lives. We push t...
The Thing About Struggle
Feb 07, 2025
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"You will never forget a person who came to you with a torch in the dark."Â M. Rose
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The thing about Struggle is that everybody has it, everyone can see it and most people would rather run away fro...
Between Stimulus and Response: Mastering Emotional Regulation
Dec 13, 2024
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Victor Frankl once said, “Between stimulus and response, there is space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” It’s a beautiful truth, bu...
The Art of Becoming
Dec 06, 2024
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When the brush hits the paper the bristles lead the way. The colors are picked randomly as they come to me. Today I sit in my cold studio and open the palette of options. Watching my neighbor sweep...
Slapping at the Surface
Nov 29, 2024
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The edge of the pool is cold and harsh and we stand in a line watching one of our instructors thrash around in the water as if he was drowning. I am 11 years old and today I am on the final leg of th...
When the Drums Cry
Nov 22, 2024
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Here I sit in the middle of 1000 people who had consumed the conference learnings for the last three days. I realize that I am in the middle of the room and escape will be difficult. Sitting in cerem...