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Loving Your Inner Child: The First Step to True Healing changing behaviors courage growing forward healing trauma inner child Feb 14, 2025

Imagine you're on a plane, and the flight attendant reminds you: "Put on your own oxygen mask before helping others." It’s a simple instruction, yet so many of us ignore it in our own lives. We push t...

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The Thing About Struggle courage healing struggle Feb 07, 2025

"You will never forget a person who came to you with a torch in the dark."  M. Rose

 

The thing about Struggle is that everybody has it, everyone can see it and most people would rather run away fro...

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Rising from the Ashes: Building Resilience to Heal Trauma healing trauma pheonix rising resilience Dec 20, 2024

The white on the ceiling is stark and cutting and makes the back of my eyes hurt as I lay here on the couch.  This is day 15 of chronic channel surfing in avoidance

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Between Stimulus and Response: Mastering Emotional Regulation emotional regulation healing trauma how to regulate emotions Dec 13, 2024

Victor Frankl once said, “Between stimulus and response, there is space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” It’s a beautiful truth, bu...

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The Art of Becoming changing behaviors courage creativity for healing growing forward hearing triggers understanding resilience Dec 06, 2024

When the brush hits the paper the bristles lead the way.  The colors are picked randomly as they come to me.  Today I sit in my cold studio and open the palette of options.  Watching my neighbor sweep...

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Slapping at the Surface growing forward resilience self acceptance trauma your healing journey Nov 29, 2024

The edge of the pool is cold and harsh and we stand in a line watching one of our instructors thrash around in the water as if he was drowning.  I am 11 years old and today I am on the final leg of th...

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When the Drums Cry changing behaviors courage indigenous drumming circle northern cree trauma your healing journey Nov 22, 2024

Here I sit in the middle of 1000 people who had consumed the conference learnings for the last three days.  I realize that I am in the middle of the room and escape will be difficult. Sitting in cerem...

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When the Power Goes Out Oct 26, 2024

Its officially winter this morning and as I sit watching the sun rise a text dings from my neighbor about the power outage.  We are on solar power so we never know about power outages.  I was grateful...

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The Battles Within Oct 19, 2024

"You are too smart to be the only thing standing in your way."

 

Welcome to the War Room.  Its a place where the maps showing soldiers in battle are laid out.   In the left corner of this room is a ...

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The Art of Survivor and the Reality of Courage changing behaviors courage growing forward healing hearing triggers Oct 15, 2024

"When The Going gets tough, the tough get going."

This phrase came about as a motivational technique to entice athletes to overcome the hardship of competition.  It is meant to encourage those athlet...

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The Vow & Other Tales of Healing and Hope courage growing forward resilience self acceptance self love the dance of growth Sep 10, 2024

"Love yourself first because that is who you will be spending the rest of your life with."

 

 I am sitting on my bed with cloths all around me. We are getting ready to head out to Westlock, Alberta ...

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Living Life By the Drop changing behaviors courage creativity for healing growing forward healing hearing triggers the dance of growth understanding resilience Sep 10, 2024

"No wasted time, we're alive today

Churning up the past, there's no easier way

Time's been between us, a means to an end

God it's good to be here walking together my friend"

Stevie Ray Vaughan


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